tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134134498693875967.post2149504845274656586..comments2023-10-30T05:38:57.537-06:00Comments on A Little Great: A Little Insight... Secondary InfertilityEntirely Eventful Dayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07691869937068577894noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134134498693875967.post-3648113055432731562010-05-21T08:30:34.832-06:002010-05-21T08:30:34.832-06:00I have been through this phase for at least 4 year...I have been through this phase for at least 4 years. My daughter now is 6 years old and I had a miscarriage when she was turning two. I got really depressed losing my child. But my husband and family has been so much comfort to give me hope. We tried for years. Everytime I got delayed I tested but no other line came up to say I'm pregnant. All I think of is that there's something wrong with me. I'm not taking care of myself that's why I lost my baby and now I'm still not taking care of myself that I couldn't get pregnant. I was so depressed then I was diagnosed with polycystic ovary. My ob-gyne has given me meds to take and hope that after 6months of med I could get pregnant. But no promises. I just let go of the thoughts and pressure of having a baby. I just let it go. Then after 6 months, I got pregnant with my baby boy and he's now five months old. We should never ever lose hope. =)shaishaimaruhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07384401517047244006noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134134498693875967.post-64226939095010116132010-04-26T23:14:39.799-06:002010-04-26T23:14:39.799-06:00You rock, girlfriend! And you write and teach incr...You rock, girlfriend! And you write and teach incredibly well. I love you and can feel your spirit in what you've said. Wouldn't it be wonderful if all children had parents who wanted them as much as you want them?Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03725179429684401159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134134498693875967.post-64760943453687973102010-04-15T10:29:39.809-06:002010-04-15T10:29:39.809-06:00Is it possible to have such a sad yet optimistic p...Is it possible to have such a sad yet optimistic post at the same time. I keep asking what I need to learn from my trials so I don't have to repeat them, lately I am thinking there may be more to it than that.Minwimmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06723341557893706853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134134498693875967.post-68392947850480890022010-04-13T23:31:04.187-06:002010-04-13T23:31:04.187-06:00We went through several years of infertility with ...We went through several years of infertility with both of our children. No more for me, I don't want to go through the heartache of waiting anymore. I appreciate your honesty and wish you the best. Don't know if you've tried it, but with my first I stopped taking all my infertility drugs and went to an acupuncturist. I was pregnant within 30 days. I ended up miscarrying, but another round of acupuncture and I immediately got pregnant with my son. I tried it again after 2 years of trying for a second child, and was again pregnant within a month. Sometimes you never know.Michelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03623652628588754893noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134134498693875967.post-69333341532086213282010-04-13T15:47:27.684-06:002010-04-13T15:47:27.684-06:00This post brought back memories of trying to get p...This post brought back memories of trying to get pregnant for a year... only to miscarry. Now I am pregnant with my third (due any time). It is good to have some perspective while I am miserable. As uncomfortable as I am now... it was nothing compared to the waiting, hoping and the eventual loss. Thanks for sharing!Entirely Eventful Dayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07691869937068577894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134134498693875967.post-51192900748945743002010-04-13T08:37:38.965-06:002010-04-13T08:37:38.965-06:00My first husband and I tried for a year and a half...My first husband and I tried for a year and a half while he was sick, no luck. Now with this hubby we are trying to have a year or two before we try but everytime I'm late I can't help but go through the same little dance. But its more complicated now, I would love to know I can get pregnant but we aren't ready....Amber Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18096142704823495321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134134498693875967.post-7346659337324782562010-04-13T01:29:05.428-06:002010-04-13T01:29:05.428-06:00thanks a lot for sharing such a emotional post. I ...thanks a lot for sharing such a emotional post. I was very much in tears reading this post . GOD bless you sister .Such things may happen to anyone . We appreciate your honesty about writing your heart out. take care .Fertility Charthttp://www.myfertilitycharts.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134134498693875967.post-61242696330847571842010-04-13T00:59:22.904-06:002010-04-13T00:59:22.904-06:00I am also so grateful for this insightful post. Th...I am also so grateful for this insightful post. Thank you for sharing these thoughts and feelings with us in such a poignant way.Sonjahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08693007110690293244noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134134498693875967.post-56693899712534045962010-04-12T15:15:14.497-06:002010-04-12T15:15:14.497-06:00That is a very touching perspective. Thank you for...That is a very touching perspective. Thank you for the insight.Somerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15086492606026423466noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134134498693875967.post-21945735760628475362010-04-12T14:35:37.465-06:002010-04-12T14:35:37.465-06:00Thank you for such an honest post about what it fe...Thank you for such an honest post about what it feels like to go through this -- thank you for sharing.Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09385092109552183702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134134498693875967.post-2286276597535335402010-04-12T12:37:16.453-06:002010-04-12T12:37:16.453-06:00Thanks for being open on this sensitive topic. I h...Thanks for being open on this sensitive topic. I have many friends who've dealt with this at some point in their lives! So thanks for sharing. I think we all want to better sympathize with others' hardships, and so when you open yourself up it helps those who don't experience it.Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12484231863085751994noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134134498693875967.post-84417628889157872032010-04-12T12:29:11.633-06:002010-04-12T12:29:11.633-06:00It's good to hear such an open and honest acco...It's good to hear such an open and honest account of what secondary infertility is like, day to day. Thank you for sharing.Meganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07049680217004851862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134134498693875967.post-62859823711375307962010-04-12T10:43:39.359-06:002010-04-12T10:43:39.359-06:00My sister has been dealing with this same issue si...My sister has been dealing with this same issue since my nephew was born. She tried 5 years before he was born to get pregnant, had him and has been trying since he was born 8 years ago for another baby. Thank you for writing about it and letting people know more. My heart breaks for my sister each month that goes by.Juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01463752441372772904noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134134498693875967.post-39949740867056795912010-04-12T10:40:43.738-06:002010-04-12T10:40:43.738-06:00This was such a beautiful and heartfelt post. I th...This was such a beautiful and heartfelt post. I think you've unearthed a great truth about the signs that sadly aren't flashing above our heads but in our minds. And then imagine my surprise, when I finished the story to see your sweet family. I just miscarried a few weeks ago and have a whole new understanding of the sadness that comes from expectations going unmet.Kerihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06904523668702147323noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134134498693875967.post-46360997823214237032010-04-12T09:18:21.444-06:002010-04-12T09:18:21.444-06:00such a great post.. thanks for being so open and h...such a great post.. thanks for being so open and honest and sharing from you heart! and yes life would be so much easier if we all had signs like that over us!Natalie of TheBusyBudgetingMama.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08529562486800675586noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134134498693875967.post-32653834456683727032010-04-12T08:35:32.564-06:002010-04-12T08:35:32.564-06:00Very insightful. Thanks for a great post!Very insightful. Thanks for a great post!Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16956354524281794118noreply@blogger.com